Step I - Friendship

Step II - Be her best friend. 

Step III - Build a story

Step IV - Whatever you are doing, You are doing great. 

Step V - Check where you stand


Step VI - It is Cool. 


Step VII - Ask her the question / Confuse her. 


Step VIII - Be patient


Now that you have come to this stage, you have to realize that you are not the only one trying to get this chick on your side, there are others too, for example: Her boyfriend. Yes, he is the biggest provider in your case. What are the common things in every couple? 
- Arguments. 
- Things they don't like about each other. 
- Fights. 
- Egos clashing. 


When you are certain of so many powerful things that are bound to happen, you just stand back and wait for them to happen. What do you do? 
Whenever she will have a fight, it is your moment. You never patch them up, you never set them apart, don't do that, breaking off a relationship isn't that simple. What you do is magnify the little things by talking too much about them. You talk to her about why they fought? She wouldn't want to talk about it, but never leave it to that. You have to take it out of her. When she does, she won't stop, and all you have to do is listen. Now the following results could be any - suppression, difference in their ideas, ideologies, lifestyle, friends, behavior, talking style... anything. The basic result is compromise. All you have to say to no matter what her problem is - 
"That is called compromising. You are compromising in this relationship and that's it. You can get back with him in a second, just compromise. I thought you were one strong personality", and make the most disgusting face. Don't say anything over that. 


Step IX - (optional) - Target her other female friends. 
The best thing for you to do would be make them your 'cute little sisters'. Treat them like they are the most adorable things around, all of them. This way, they adore you like anything, and there is no chance you might have a possibility of anyone amongst them falling for you. The biggest patching up agents are mostly a girl's female friends. If you have them on your side, you can manipulate them like puppets. This is the moment when you tell them that you have fallen in love with her. Why now, why not earlier? There is a two big reasons for that, first, you don't ever want to show that your feelings have always been to woo her since the beginning; secondly, with time, you prove to everyday that you are a really good friend but you fell for her in the end, which was eventual and nobody would think of anything. 


Step X - Study her. 
This is the last and the most important step. In this, you study what her actions were after the fight, and what are the things she lack to break up with her boyfriend. To be honest, if you challenge the girl's ego, she would break up instantaneously without a thought to prove that she is not weak; but just in case if she doesn't, use her friends. And they have broken up, you remain the only contender in her life.

How to get a girl by chatting with her!

There are already many posts on how to get a girl on Facebook? How to get a girl online? What to message a girl?

If you chat with a girl daily, or occasionally, how do you attract her? Online dating depends on the following things:

1) Your profile.

Suppose you are in a social networking site, the profile is a very important feature. It is actually equivalent to 'the first impression' scenario. Whatever a girl sees in your profile, builds your first impression in her eyes. So how should your profile look like:

- Don't leave it blank because you don't want to put nonsense in it or you don't have anything to put.

75% of guys leave their profiles absolutely blank because they have nothing to put. By doing this you are actually telling a girl how much disinterested a person you could come out to be - you either are very boring or too cocky.

- Don't fill your profile if you are really lame.

A profile less interesting to a girl is a direct turn off. She'd never even bother to talk to you. Maximum number of guys live in the illusion that they are really cool, or what they have written is very hip and hypnotizing. But don't fall into that bubble. Every girl has a standard in her mind, she'd only talk to you if you come above it or on it.

- Don't fill your profile with too much intellectual stuff.

Now this seems really good an idea, but it often scare chicks off. Intellect is a very good thing, but keep it as a card for the future. Your profile should be moderate with and a mixture of intellectual display and wit.

- If you have no ideas, copy someone's profile.

This might sound really cheap, but do anything to earn the first impression. Don't copy it from someone you know, Internet has a very wide variety of users, just copy it from someone who'd never find about it, and even if he does, it's not a big deal - you both just happen to have the same interests.

They are not in a relationship yet but love each other. How do I woo the Girl?

You have already climbed the first step, which is being her friend. Now because you are a mutual friend, you have the authority to influence both of them. The first thing I hope you are ready to do is cut him off the game, after knowing that he is in love with the girl too, there is only one guy who can win. Also, by knowing that she likes him too, your chance of wooing her lessens a lot. Here are the following things you can do:

1) Be her best friend.
Why? You have to be the one who can fill her ears against the guy she likes. You don't want to rely on any of her friends on this particular act.


2) Get a good friend of yours, and tell him to make the girl his sister.
Girls love having guys not hitting on them and mingle quickly with the ones who give out a vibe of security. What you need in order to win this game is to have power over her; and to do that you need more people around her to be on your side. It's better to have someone put the idea in her mind that you are a great option for a boyfriend.


3) Tempt the guy.
If he is into her too, then it wouldn't be long when he goes and tells her. Get him against this love - thing. Tell him that it's of no use and relationships are super lame and creepy; that he should get the idea of wooing her out of his head and possibly chase some other girl who he is not romantically linked with. Give him options of girls he should woo.


4) Destroy the guy's chances of wooing her.
If he doesn't understand and still wants to woo her, then you'll have to take some steps in order to destroy his image in the eyes of the girl. You can do the following things:
- Dig in his past, and find any of the mistakes he had committed related to a girl, or anything embarrassing. Remember that you have to totally destroy his image.
- If he has an ex-girlfriend, pick their story and twist it a little bit and present it in front of the girl. If his ex-girlfriend hates him, just get her on a call with the girl.
- If the above doesn't work, get rumours about him being gay or how he was found naked in a party or how he got arrested once because of stealing; you improvise.
- If the above doesn't work, get rumours that he wants to woo you (the girl), but is not at all serious; only wants to play around.
- Have a party, get the guy extremely drunk, click some pictures and show the girl that how much he drinks and reflect all the negativity out of it. You can improvise.
- If you have a female friend who can help, tell her to flirt with him; if he gives a response, you use it against him.
- Improvise more methods.


5) After once you have destroyed his chance, you can easily play your game and woo her.