If a girl is quite popular and it is impossible for you to talk to her, you can do something like:
- You can create some sort of story/ joke about her, based on faulty assumptions and details (self made-up), and make the story reach to her stamped by your name on it.
- The rumors/ story/ joke shouldn’t be obscene, vulgar or hurting. Do not pick her character, as it is the most fickle and risky area and might seriously tick a girl off. If you are searching for something to pick on her, there is her dressing sense, way she talks, gestures, hairdo, her name (be creative).
-Let’s assume that you selected her dressing sense for the joke and came up with something really funny. She’d hear about it and the fact that it came from you; she’d come to you, shout a little bit but you keep quiet; remember it is all part of your plan.
- Last step, you would go to her and use the primary weapon: a beautiful apology. You use only words; don’t plan into making a card or buying a gift, and remember it should be so bold and affecting that would make her forget about everything and forgive you.
Guess what, you just got the college’s most popular girl talking to you! This was just one trick, if you start to think you can come up with thousands of such tricks. All you need to be is smart and confident.
Also,
- You are a victim of the common perspective that many guys hold, that a popular girl is hard to woo or is impossible to woo. Because of her outward qualities, guys make themselves inferior and don't take actions.
Some very common attributes of popular chicks amongst guys are:
1) Because they know they are beautiful, they pay a lot of attention on how they look.
That meant:
-- They are a little dumb.
-- What you thought in the first place was wrong, she does care about you, why do you think she is dressing up?
2) They actually want popularity too.
-- which is the reason why they aren't careerists.
-- which explains they are easily woo-able because they are running after something that won't last for long.
-- because they cannot understand all of this, they are dumb.
3) They are always entangled in the most stupid/ idiotic/ trivial activities.
4) They love being in groups, having friends who classify them a little higher, and having many guy friends.
5) They love hanging out, partying, and doing all sorts of social stuff that is needed to keep their image alive,
Basically they are bimbos. Yes, most of the chicks who run after popularity or an image are bimbos. They fall for traps easily; all you have to have is a half-kilogram of brains applied onto a plan. But if you love her, you'll have to change yourself a little, and be a little extrovert.
How do you know she will say a yes or no?
It is very easy to find out with such chicks because as they have a certain standards to follow in everything, they apply a special sort of attention in figuring out what kind of guy they would like or not; and this very results can be viewed by observing her male friends. Notice what she likes in them:
- Many a time, it is the clothing and the guys are absolutely dumb. That would mean she is just into appearances, which means her life is hollow, and if you are in love with her, i'd suggest you to re-consider.
- Many a time there is a pattern, like many popular girls like to have smart guys around them, or geeks. That means she doesn't match people up with their appearances or social stratas.
You have to observe such patterns and you can easily find by comparing them to yourself, that if she would say a yes or No.
Exception: This entire post was NOT about girls who have achieved popularity because of their academic excellence or related. If that is the case, then you might have confused me by using the term 'popularity', because that is a wrong term. So watch it.
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