Sunday, November 20, 2011

She is my best friend, does that mean she is in love with me?



First of all, if you were good friends with her, you should have wooed her a long time ago.
Read the post:

How to woo a friend by confusing her.


Your mistakes were:
- You are too much protective of your image.
- You want to show yourself as someone you are not.
- You are too scared to take a chance.



This are the reasons why you didn't ask her number but talked to her on Skype day and night; why you are best friend but still never bothered to ask about her past relationship, even when you are curious; or you never tried to woo her yet loving her secretly.


Some conclusions that you and every guy-friend of a girl who wants to woo her should know:


1) The position of a friend is nothing.
I have said this before and now again: stop being proud of being her good friend. A position of a good friend is nothing in terms of wooing. If you want to woo her, then think of yourself as being one step less. But don't think about standing there and enjoying it as it's nearly over, and she would come running to you telling how much she loves you. That almost never happens.


2) Girls love guy-friends.
Women love to have males as good friends. It's a thing with them. But that is it, it doesn't have any corollary or epilogue that states that it also means that she is going to fall in love with you - that is what guys think. If you are her guy-friend, that is the only thing you are to her - nothing less, nothing more. That is why, don't sit there or be happy.


3) Being a good friend is step 3. Take step 4 asap.
You don't want to be treated as a good friend forever, especially when your intentions are to be her boyfriend. She is not going to do anything about it, in-fact she hasn't even thought about that. And that is when a guy comes from no-where and sweeps her away in just three days; and you wonder what went wrong?


What went wrong was:
- She never saw you as anything more than a friend.
Note: If her boyfriend doesn't like you, he can get you out of the game in a second, because always remeber: he is her boyfriend, you are not.
Therefore, a good friend is nothing unless her boyfriend approves. (this is largely based on the girl, and also the influence her boyfriend has on her)

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