(Solution to a dating problem by bikeralok@gmail.com) As you have mentioned in the problem that you lied, because of which your break-up happened. Now there are following things you can do, considering that there are things in life sometimes close to the impossible:
- Be her friend, and start all over again.
That is one way, but as far as I know if she is already in relationship with another guy, after getting hurt by a lie from her previous relationship, she'd be pretty much committed to him, and listen to him instead of forgiving you and letting you in her life again. So that depends on chance, because no boyfriend likes her girlfriend's ex-boyfriend to be her friend.
- It depends on how her boyfriend is like
If he really loves her, and she loves him too. Then there is very little scope for you.
- See if by any means, you can break them up.
-- Check for his history.
-- Check for mutual friends who can do something.
-- Check for his ex-girlfriends.
-- Look for mistakes he had committed in the past.
-- Look if there are any lies he had told her.
To be honest, breaking up a couple is not that tough a thing. All you need is the right words. But that is totally dependent on who is at the other side. Because if he is a bigger player than you, then you won't stand a chance.
- If you can't do anything, then just leave it. Don't ruin your last hope.
A girl always calls. It might take time, but with a girl life is like a circle, she is never past things, one day will come when would definitely call you, but you need to maintain a reputation till then.
If you constantly nag or trouble her, you are destroying chances of your future. Don't irritate so much that even the thought of you disgusts her. Maximum guys, after their break-up, do that. It is not taking you anywhere except the girl farther away from you
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