Since she is flirty, all the benefits that you enjoy being her friend, and something more are useless. You want her to be in a serious relationship with you, but you can't because you don't want to risk the following things:
- Your friendship
If she feels repelled from you are offering, she might start to ignore you as she'd always get new guys.
- Your benefits.
- It's basically whatever you think you have.
All the time you enjoy with her, you don't want to risk it by taking it one step further. But that's a fear that every man has.
How to make a girl who flirts around with guys serious for you?
There are three ways of that happening:
1) Time: With time, as she might realize one day that all of this has lead to nothing, and she should have settled with one guy and blahblahblah. That would be one moment, but you can't wait for that as there is no fixed date when it would happen.
2) Cause: If by any means she finds a cause to be in a relationship, is another way. It comprises of experiences, friendship, what goes in her life. She might get inspired from anything, from something as simple as looking at a friend's life. You can work on this gradually as a friend, through movies, through your talks, show her the true side of life. There is much of literature on True love. Make her read that. Be a good talker, inspire her. Bring a change in someone for good isn't that tough.
3) Restriction:
The third way is what mommy and daddy do: impose restrictions. This method applies if only it's too late.
So, what do you do when you have nothing in your power!
- You take the side of evil planning, and silently contact the people who are still in power to influence her and think good of her.
- Don't reach out to them directly, pick some indirect method to let them know about her recently- acquired habits of Alcohol and stuff. (make stuff up or if you have true stuff, good for you)
- They will take action.
- The stronger the action, the better it is for you.
- When the resulted action had taken place, contact her through any source, which you can because you know this was going to happen.
- She will read your letters/ messages/ whatever because that's the only thing she'll be left with at that moment.
- Out of misplaced anger, She'd want to be with you as you are the only one showering true love upon her.
- Your friendship
If she feels repelled from you are offering, she might start to ignore you as she'd always get new guys.
- Your benefits.
- It's basically whatever you think you have.
All the time you enjoy with her, you don't want to risk it by taking it one step further. But that's a fear that every man has. How to make a girl who flirts around with guys serious for you?
There are three ways of that happening:
1) Time: With time, as she might realize one day that all of this has lead to nothing, and she should have settled with one guy and blahblahblah. That would be one moment, but you can't wait for that as there is no fixed date when it would happen.
2) Cause: If by any means she finds a cause to be in a relationship, is another way. It comprises of experiences, friendship, what goes in her life. She might get inspired from anything, from something as simple as looking at a friend's life. You can work on this gradually as a friend, through movies, through your talks, show her the true side of life. There is much of literature on True love. Make her read that. Be a good talker, inspire her. Bring a change in someone for good isn't that tough.
3) Restriction:
The third way is what mommy and daddy do: impose restrictions. This method applies if only it's too late.
So, what do you do when you have nothing in your power!
- You take the side of evil planning, and silently contact the people who are still in power to influence her and think good of her.
- Don't reach out to them directly, pick some indirect method to let them know about her recently- acquired habits of Alcohol and stuff. (make stuff up or if you have true stuff, good for you)
- They will take action.
- The stronger the action, the better it is for you.
- When the resulted action had taken place, contact her through any source, which you can because you know this was going to happen.
- She will read your letters/ messages/ whatever because that's the only thing she'll be left with at that moment.
- Out of misplaced anger, She'd want to be with you as you are the only one showering true love upon her.
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